Ok, so it’s been ages since I last posted, mainly because I’ve been so busy. I’m taking 20 credits of classes (the max courseload) and I have two on-campus jobs. But non-the-less, I have had some sexy adventures since my last post. It all started when I began perusing Alt.com this January and found a sub named Sarah who goes to college in a town not far from St.Paul. Basically this all started because I was in a tug-of-war with my domme side and my bi side, both yearning to come out, and so Paul agreed to letting me find myself a female friend. Sarah seemed super; my age, gorgeous, nice body, pretty smart, friendly and liberal. So after a few times chatting with her online we decided to meet up. No strings attached, right?

Well, not so much.

See, a few days before we were to meet up, she told me of her “mentor” Terry. He’s a middle-aged pyschology professor in California who she met a year ago and had become her master. They have phone- and cyber-sex/domination sessions. I was pretty open-minded, so I wasn’t really put off by it too much. She wanted Terry to guide us through her speakerphone on our first meeting, and I said, sure, sounds good, it’ll be easier for me since I’m a bit rusty.

So yah, it went ok, didn’t really go as well as I wanted it too (I ended up feeling kinda like Terry was completely running the show and I had no say, which was a blow to my eager domme side). So we talked, figured it out, and met a couple more times. I am too tired to discuss the details, but it basically involved playing with Sarah’s body (tits and pussy) and making her cum with her vibrator.

So yah, this was all good until spring term started, and the shit started to hit the fan as far as my workload. Suddenly I am a hermit working on projects, summer job apps, homework, and Sarah and Terry start to get irritated. Basically it comes down to that we are “not in the same place in live right now” and boom, I’m been dumped, I think around beginning of March.

That’s the short and sweet version. There was a hell of a lot of drama, anger, frustration, sadness, helplessness and etc, especially since there were multiple people involved (4 in total– me, Sara, Terry and Paul). But hell, that’s what happens in a lot of relationships, so no real loss. In fact, I regained my perspective that dating sucks and stable relationships are much easier to handle.

I will say though that I am glad I had the experiences I had. Being with a woman is so great. I am jealous of boys who get to play with girls all the time! The pussy is an enchanting thing, I swear. Man, when she gets wet, it just makes ya tingle, like “hey, I did that, I’m turning her on!” And the feeling of another woman’s breasts against mine… holy shit, so hot. I totally condone experimentation with the same sex during college, it’s such a mind-blowing experience. Be safe and sane, of course, but yah, it’s awesome. And Sarah was such an amazing sub. Such submission, she really had it perfected. It was a shame we didn’t have the chemistry or the time for it to work out.

At least I can say that I have satified my curiousity for now, and god knows I’ve learned alot. That’s all for now folks, can’t promise regular posting, but hey, at least you got a post, right?

Ciao!

So right now is completely rockin’ cuz Paul’s roommate is taking a month off and spending it in his hometown with his family, so I’ve kinda taken his spot and moved in with Paul. Hooray, finally we can have naked parties again! (that’s our name for when we hang out in our room naked for hours on end) It’s been super fun, and we’ve really livened up the place.

It all started when we went to Sex World to check out the porn selection. We don’t have any dirty movies, and were asking ourselves “why the hell not?” We started to look around and I found a section of Jenna Jameson films. I figured, hey, I’d heard of her but didn’t know what she was about. Well, I was in ecstasy at the things she does. She does lots of girl/girl stuff, and even quite a bit of bondage! I was very happy with this. We didn’t buy anything cuz prices were really high and there wasn’t as much selection as I would have liked to see, but the point was that I had a new hero.

The next day, we went to the mall and stopped at Spencers to look around. I decided to look at the posters, cuz hey, they have lots of eye candy. All of a sudden I saw this gem on the right. How hot is that? I thought, very, so I bought it. I had also had an idea earlier that day that Paul and I should have a sex journal, to jot our thoughts in, give eachother ideas, feedback, etc. As I perused Spencers I found a really nice Playboy notebook with a lace up binding, so we got that and deemed it our “Everything-Involving-Sex Shared Journal.” I also bought a Playboy 2006 lingerie calendar, because, well, Playboy girls are hot as hell. So that was our first little sexy adventure.

The next day we decided to go shopping again. This time to Menards. See, we’ve been thinking about buying some rope to enhance the bondage part of our sex life, and finally decided to act on it. We ended up having Billy go with us, mainly just cuz he had stopped over to our dorm to get some things and check out the newly rearranged room, and figured it’s be fun to have him along. We wandered around Menards for a while, eventually finding rope, and bought 50 ft of all-purpose, medium weight synthetic rope that seemed like it would be comfortable to be bound up in. It could handle 157 lbs, so I think we’re good. On the way to the check out line, I saw a dowel rod display and remembered a do-it-yourself idea my ex-boyfriend had had about canes used for spanking. instead of paying prices upwards of $20 and more plus having it shipped, we bought a $0.48 dowel rod, about a 1/4 inch diameter, and I made a handle for it. I will take a pic of it later, here’s kinda what it looks like, tho the handle of ours is white and has a loop for hanging.

We also bought a wooden hairbrush at Target, cuz I just wanted on to try for spanking, as it has a different feel than my plastic one. Lots of additions, eh? I am super excited to try out all our new stuff and come up with all sorts of creative ideas on how to incorporate many items in our sex drawer in a single setting. Oh, and Paul and I ended up ordering two Jenna Jameson DVDs online; they’ll be coming sometime this week. Ciao!